How to Teach Empathy to Young Children

We know that empathy is one of the most important qualities a child can develop. It’s the ability to understand and share the feelings of another person — and it’s a skill that will serve them well in every relationship they build throughout life.

Teaching empathy to young children doesn’t happen overnight, but with the right guidance and encouragement, children can begin to recognise and respond to the emotions of others in a positive, compassionate way.

Why Is Empathy So Important?

Empathy isn’t just about being kind — it’s about understanding what others might be feeling and responding in ways that are helpful and caring. Children who develop empathy are more likely to:

• Build positive friendships and relationships
• Demonstrate kindness and respect to others
• Handle conflicts calmly and resolve disagreements peacefully
• Understand different perspectives and experiences

Empathy also helps children regulate their own emotions. When they can recognise the emotions of others, they’re more likely to understand their own feelings and respond appropriately.

How to Teach Empathy to Young Children

Here at Fireflies, we believe that empathy is best taught through everyday interactions and experiences. Here are some practical ways to nurture empathy in young children:

• Model Empathy: Children learn by example. When we, as educators and caregivers, show empathy — whether it’s comforting a child who’s upset or showing concern for others’ feelings — children begin to understand how to respond in similar situations.
• Read Books About Emotions: Books are a great way to introduce children to different emotions and how characters express empathy. Stories with themes of kindness, sharing, and helping others can be a springboard for discussions about feelings.
• Discuss Emotions: Encourage children to talk about their feelings and the feelings of others. For example, ask questions like, “How do you think your friend feels when she falls down?” or “What could we do to help someone who is sad?”
• Role-Playing: Role-play is a powerful tool for teaching empathy. Children love to act out different scenarios where they can practise understanding other people’s emotions and responding with care.
• Encourage Acts of Kindness: Whether it’s helping a friend with a puzzle, sharing a toy, or saying something kind, small acts of kindness encourage children to think about how their actions can positively affect others.

Empathy in Action at Fireflies

At Fireflies, we embed empathy into our everyday routines and activities. Whether it’s during group play, circle time, or individual moments of care, we guide children in recognising and responding to the needs of those around them. We create a warm, supportive environment where children feel safe to express themselves and learn to be considerate of others.

By fostering empathy in the early years, we’re helping children develop not only emotional intelligence but also the social skills that will carry them through school and life.